Is Self-Care Fleeing You as a Mom?

Do you take good care of yourself? Of course, you do, or at least you think you do. However, you may not realize that the level of care you give yourself is far sub-optimal, in many cases even being regarded as neglect. Yes, circumstances may force you to spend less time on yourself than you would like, and there are usually dozens of reasons why.

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I’m Back!!!!

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It has been some time now since I have been on this blog and I have to say that I miss you all here! However, taking time for self-care was a must and I am hoping those of you who are fans will stick around and still be here once I returned.

Being an older mom takes time to adjust to this new life but I am so much better with a better system of home life, business life, healthy life, and just life altogether.

Are you all ready for the great things I have planned? I hope so, I have had time away to write, read, care for myself emotionally and understanding the grieving process after losing my mother while still caring for my father.


Just wanted to drop a few lines to say I’M BACK and I MISS EACH OF YOU!!


Starting an Online Business: How to Set Clear Goals

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If you are starting an online business, you are joining the ranks of hundreds of thousands of others. There are many tasks to achieve when it comes to your online business. One of the most important and perhaps the most beneficial ways to achieve success is to set clear goals for that business.

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How to Create a Pattern of Success

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Once you experience success you will be able to look back and realize that you achieve all success pretty much the same way. You set a goal, follow through on the tasks needed to be done for achieving results, keep an open mind, learn from others, track your successes and learn from failure. It’s the same thing, over and over again. And it works.

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Pros and Cons of Working for Yourself

Working for yourself isn’t all pluses. Sometimes there are huge minuses. It’s up to you to determine whether the pluses outweigh the minuses. But, it’s good for you to know in advance what the pros and cons of working for yourself are so that you can be realistic about what you’re getting yourself into.

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Hello World! I’m Tamara, Welcome to

Hey there, sweet friends! I’m Tamara, and I’m so excited that you’ve stumbled over to my blog! I started PheMOMenonAtForty in the Summer of 2017 and didn’t have a clue what blogging was. Still not quite sure about everything, but I knew I needed some sort of creative outlet and decided to give this blogging thing a try.


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How to Talk to Your Family about Working from Home

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So you’ve been thinking of starting a business or working from home. You have a business name, and ideas scribbled down on paper. However, you’re stuck with this one thing!

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